Isn’t falling in love the greatest thing that can happen to me?
No, it’s not. That’s what romantic movies tell you – if you fall in love you will be the happiest person on the planet. So you try to be Cinderella looking for Prince Charming. You believe all your problems will disappear once you fall in love. You believe you will never feel lonely again. You believe you will find the meaning of life in another person. You believe you will find yourself by losing yourself in another person.